Breathe! Breathe!! Breathe!!!
At times all we need to do is take a deep breathe and remind ourselves all is well.

It’s okay if you feel the pressure is much, it’s okay if you feel the whole thing is much for you to take in all at once, it’s okay to take a break and get your sanity back.

It’s okay to be in your space, to take a moment and reflect, it’s okay to want to take it one step at a time.

It’s okay to breathe.


Who do you blame?
Who is to be blamed?

As humans, it’s in our nature to always point fingers at others. Sometimes we are scared of taking full responsibility, therefore we shift the blame to others, even when it’s clear that we’re the one at fault.

Don’t you think it’s high time we start taking responsibilities and learning to accept the consequences of our actions?

Most times, all we need to do is just accept that we are humans and it’s normal for us to make mistakes.

Accepting blames doesn’t mean we are weak and it doesn’t make us one, instead, it makes us better people who are willing to accept and change.


A wise man once said, “one of the secrets to life is to love who you are”.

I had to struggle for years with my identity, couldn’t really figure out who I was … I had so many things I wish I could change, I thought I wasn’t smart enough but I guess I was completely wrong all this while, I felt I didn’t have what it takes to be great and to be on top.

I wasn’t the girl with the confidence and courage and I wasn’t just like the other girls. I wasn’t good enough for me, talk more about being good for someone else, so I thought.

So many people feel this way, simply because their life isn’t going the exact same way as planned, shouldn’t stop you from loving yourself, the truth is no one will love you more than you love yourself except God, and if you don’t love yourself the way you should, it will be hard for one to give or receive love.

We all have scars, we all might have made mistakes in the past that left us with regrets, but it’s high time we put all of that behind us and forge ahead, you shouldn’t continue hating yourself because of something you did or something that was done to you.
love all your flaws and all your perfect imperfections.

Oh yes! You are beautiful, don’t let anyone make you feel less and you have scars but then those scars are reminders of what life has taught you and all that you have been through, and yes you have to be grateful. You are special, amazing and simply unique.

CHEERS to loving ourselves🥂


The girl with the broken pieces, she just wished things didn’t turn out the way they did.
She knew what rejection was like and what it meant to be ignored,she had a lot of friends but none was there for her, maybe she had really high expectations of them.

This is the story of a girl who almost lost it, but then found a silver lining in her dark cloud , even when everyone had given up on her she needed to be strong to prove them wrong, she needed to be strong in order to encourage someone out there who was also giving up, She needed to be a source of inspiration, she needed to be the light in someone’s darkness.

Even though she fell and stumbled, she wasn’t discouraged, she kept on pushing hard, walking towards the light. How far she has come no one knew, she took her broken pieces hoping to make a difference, She was lost in the dark but now she found her light, she wandered off but now she found her path.

All she kept doing was giving it another shot; she’s on a journey of self discovery, she kept pushing and struggling till she was able to see the light at the end of the tunnel.


Dear Friend,

Most times in life we feel there are certain things we can’t do and we think there are certain heights we can’t attain right? Now the thing is this, we are able to achieve whatsoever we plan on achieving and we can attain whatsoever height we want to attain, only if the word LIMITING isn’t in our dictionary.

So I was opportune to meet a very lovely lady and we got along pretty well, there was this particular day I saw her do something and I really wanted to try it but no matter how hard I tried I wasn’t getting the expected result and all I kept doing was giving excuses. I am pretty good at giving excuses which is really bad.

Then she said, do you know you can do this, it’s really not difficult and it isn’t as hard as you think, why don’t you just try harder and trust me I still gave an excuse, then she said something that really struck me that day, she said the thing is you keep limiting yourself and saying you can’t do it, she kept on saying the word over and over again, limiting yourself and I was left with no choice than to ponder on that word…

I have been limiting myself to so many things all because I felt I couldn’t do it, that day I realized I was my own limit. If you want to do something why don’t you just try it out, instead of avoiding it, avoidance isn’t the solution to any problem. If you try something out and you don’t get your expected result, instead of giving up why don’t you just use another method?

I think the problem most people have is fear. So tell me why are you afraid? why have you allowed fear into your hearts? Okay, maybe because you think it wouldn’t work out as planned, but then
life itself is a risk so why don’t you just take that chance instead of ignoring it. It’s worth giving a try.

So dear friend what is that thing that you feel you can’t do? Instead of limiting yourself why don’t you just try, and if you fail keep trying until you win, don’t give up, remember quitters never win and winners never quit.

This new week remember that the sky is not the limit, KEEP PUSHING.

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WHAT NEXT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Life doesn’t happen the way we want it to be or the way we have it all figured out in our head.

So what happens when we get to this point in our lives and we just can’t seem to figure it all out or take it all in? What happens when it feels like you’re lost and you’re unable to find yourself?

Well, I don’t have answers to the any of the questions either, cos I am at a point in my life where I no longer see reasons, at a point I am trying so hard not to break down, at a point I am trying to give everything meaning even when I don’t see it.

So what can I do? What should I do?

Well it’s to keep striving and fighting. It was never promised that it would be a smooth one or a ride full of roses.

So we are going to do what needs to be done, put all of our weaknesses and failures behind us, we are going to tell our souls be not weary, our eyes be not teary, our feeble knees be strengthened and just like the sun we will surely rise again and like the stars we are going to shine for all to see…

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I LOVE YOU 😘😘😘😘😘😘


You told me to trust you,
That you will never let go,
I shouldn’t go far,
Cos you’ll be right beside me.

That I could count on you like 123,
Cos you’ve got my back always,
I should have realised,
That all this was too good,
Too good to be true.

How sweet your words sounded,
I let it embrace my soul,
Your word was a bait that I let my soul feed on…


My Not So Little Self

Hello everyone, I am super excited to be going through this journey with you all. On this platform I am going to be sharing with you all everything good, everything about life, relationship and this will be more like an open diary about me.

I have decided to go public but then remain anonymous because I believe that you can learn a few things from my story and I can also learn from yours.

Your not so little girl is kinda petite, a foodie but unfortunately she doesn’t look like that, she is a music lover and a bad ass dancer (in her head of cos😅😅😅). She loves to write, she loves children and she is a strong believer that even though things aren’t going as planned that shouldn’t be enough reason to give up. You can always drop your comments in the comment box or better still email me at

Cheers to us 🥂🥂🥂.

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