Happy new year guys!😊 How’s the year panning out for you? I hope you’re still sticking to those goals you wrote at the beginning of the year?😉
Here’s my first post this year and while it’s quite odd, it is really intriguing. So, enjoy!😄
Storytime: FIRST DATE
So we met for the first time on a Wednesday. He caught my attention because he looked so much like someone I knew. We both came to do something and it didn’t take long before we were done. I know I said something like I didn’t want to go home because it was early so my friend asked if we could just chill, and we all agreed- a friend and 3 strangers.
It was weird how we were all able to click, meeting for the first time and feeling like we had known each other for years. There was this peace around I felt, how 5 grown-ups were so vulnerable and played like children, how we felt so connected in a way that seemed pleasurable and how we felt so secured. Truth be told, the experience was amazing.
When it was time to part ways, the realization then dawned on me again- they were all strangers and we might never see again. We parted with lots of hug and loads of pictures. A memory I will forever cherish.
Fast forward to when I got home, I had to call to make sure everyone got home safe. Then I got a text saying “could we chill tomorrow and you know just talk”. I don’t know if that was a proper date but it was a date to me. Going on a date with a person you just met a day before felt so weird and I was so scared to mess things up.
I don’t know if there are rules that apply to how a first date should be, what you should do or not or the type of conversations you should have, where your first date should be, limit and boundaries.
Well, I actually did have a great date in the end and who cares anyway, I broke all rules.🥂(laughs)